I've been in maintenance for three years. I was able to tolerate chemo for six months before I had to have a conversation about what quality of life meant to me. I still live with stage 4 breast cancer, along with lymphedema in my dominant arm and hand. Since it's stage 4, it's something I'll have for the duration. The numbness in my fingers is not nearly as bad as the neuropathy in my feet and toes.
Otherwise, I work full time as an administrator at a Montessori public elementary and middle school. I love being there and plan to keep working as long as I can. I've also found a way to give back. I crochet dolls for Forever Friends, whose recipients have all kinds of health issues. I find the project very fulfilling.
Personally, I'm frightened of leaving behind my supportive husband. I have two adult children, three grandchildren and three dogs.
I guess I'm hoping for a little gift for myself, as a reminder to take care of me, too.
-Trisha
